Friday, July 30, 2010

A little update

I realized it has been almost two weeks now since my last blog and unfortunately nothing very eventful has taken place to report on. But, I figured I'd update a little on our normal routine life here in Ghana.

Alan's been working like crazy preparing for the big audit starting in August. This means leaving the house at 7:30am and returning home between 7:30-8pm every day just exhausted. We've spent our last few weekends doing a bit of exploring around town. Last weekend we went to a few art galleries that we had not yet been to, went to our basket lady who I frequent to get beautiful hand woven baskets from and bought a few (I tried my hand at bargaining and was horrendous at it according to Alan but got my baskets anyway at seller's price). We had sushi with our friends Uxoa and Carlos and their girls because their older girl LOVES sushi. I've never seen a 5-year old gobble up some sushi rolls like her. It was pretty funny!

We took a nice drive to the next town over and explored some unknown roads we'd never been on before. We found ourselves in a suburban like part of town with sort-of-strip malls...it was interesting at least to see. We amazingly made it back home without getting too lost.

My days have been filled with a few things. I've been working about 10-15 hours a week at the NGO, Chance for Children which is split between hours at their drop-in center in meetings and working from home. It's been a really challenging but interesting experience mostly because the things I've been trying to implement to create more structure and accountability are not going down so well for the staff. There is a mixture of resistance, confusion, power struggles, and just a different sort of work ethic than I'm used to so I've been working on my patience.

Otherwise, I've been working on my sewing and have made a few things to wear and for around the house. The ladies in my sewing/needlepoint group have given me some pointers on learning to quilt so I've tried my hand at that too.






And at the same time, I'm trying to get a little cake/pastry business started that I can do on the side and from home. I've gotten some business cards made



and have a few small orders mostly from friends. Gradually, I hope to spread the word and build it a bit. I might even suggest that the bar/restaurant/coffee shop at our apartment complex sell some things but not sure if they'll go for it.

I've been working on learning how to make new things like bagels. I've gotten pretty good and they taste amazing so I make a batch almost every weekend and share with our friends and neighbors.



That's about it for now. We plan to go to the beach this Sunday with some friends which we're looking forward to and I'll be sure to take lots of pictures! Maybe we'll even look for the lobster lady.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Beach, Sun, and Lobster

Alan and I headed to the nearby beach this weekend with some friends to celebrate one of their birthdays. It's hard to believe, but despite living in a coastal city, we have yet to go to the beach. Part of the issue is that the beach right in Accra is a health hazard and I wouldn't step near it. I'm really happy we finally made it out to the ocean though. About an hour outside of Accra is a little strip of mostly clean, relatively safe beach with one little restaurant with the freshest fish ever and some little plots of land that one can rent. One of the families we were with rents a plot with a few other families and that is where we gathered for the day.




The water was a little rough for my taste and after hearing about a friend who got a worm in his foot that made it's way up his thigh after hanging out at the same beach, I was a little nervous but we had a really good time anyway. One of the women who joined us has adopted two twin Ghanaian boys from a local orphanage and they were ridiculously cute. So they kept us entertained throughout the day.






After playing some games on the beach and relaxing in the sun, we got ready for lunch which entailed buying fresh lobster from the local women selling up and down the beach and throwing them in some boiling water. But, as most things in Ghana, it was a bit complicated. The first women that came over showed us their lobsters (which they carry in a bucket on their heads) quoted us a price that apparently was almost double what our friends normally pay. Several other lobster-selling women came over and still the price was too high. Jen and her husband, Michael, who rent the plot insisted that they buy from a women almost every weekend for much less. So we all were gathered around buckets full of crawling lobster as the price never got low enough. Mind you, we were talking about 50 cents for one lobster and they wanted $1 for each but it was more the principal I suppose. After Jen mentioned the name of her usual lobster women, one of the women who was there said, "oh, she's my sister" and quickly made a phone call and her sister agreed to come to us and sell. After waiting about an hour, she arrived and quoted us the same price the other women did! We finally talked her down a bit and bought about 30 lobsters for all of us. After turning a nice pink over some hot coals, we spread some garlic butter on them and ate them up.






We left early enough to avoid the horrendous weekend traffic that can potentially make a 1 hour trip 4 hours and made it home sandy and tired but happy to get some fresh ocean air.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

We Have Friends!

Alan and I have slowly begun to feel like we are building a nice little group of friends here in Accra. I think I've forgotten how long it can take to really feel like you have a network of friends. Being in NYC for a number of years, I think I took for granted how wonderful it is to have such good friends around you all the time. It was a bit of shock to have my whole network taken away and to start over again. But after a week of fun social events, I think Alan and I finally were able to say, we have friends!

Monday last week was Alan's birthday so I organized a little birthday dinner for him at the "fancy" Italian restaurant here. We invited about 10 people and had a little party there. The waiters even sang Happy Birthday to him as they brought Alan's cake out (I of course made him his favorite - Red Velvet). We had a really nice time and had a lot of laughs.




Then on Tuesday, I met Uxoa, her husband Carlos, and their two cute girls. Uxoa is a good friend of my good friend, Fiona, who I know from NYC. They are all from Colombia and Uxoa and her family were just living in Kenya for 5 years and just moved to Accra for her husband's work. So Fiona put me in touch with them, sure that we'd all get along well. We were so excited for their arrival and just had a good feeling that'd we'd like them. Uxoa and I have been talking for the last few months preparing for her arrival so I felt like we already knew each other. So we gathered around their hotel pool and spent some time getting acquainted.

Wednesday and Thursday were full days for work for me at Chance for Children and even there I've made a few friends.

And then Friday, Uxoa and I spent most of the day looking for odds and ends she needs to set up her apartment. It's always fun setting up house and I've figured I'd do my best to help her quickly find what she needs. We had some success even though rain and Friday's heavy traffic delayed us a bit. Friday night was our usual Guinness work people pizza night at Mama Mia's...our favorite pizza place here. We laughed pretty much through the whole dinner as Alan and his work friend, Paul, engaged in non-stop banter...most of which is completely ridiculous 5th grade humor, but, nonetheless, very funny!

Today, we hosted a lunch for Uxoa, Carlos, and their children and our friends/neighbors Dyane and Antonio. Dyane is from the US and Antonio from Chile and we've really enjoyed them over the last few months. We reguarly do dinners with each other and they are usually the recipients of all the baked goods I'm making...lately lots of bagels. I'm kicking myself now because I totally forgot to bring the camera out today, so you'll just have to trust me that we had delicious tapas that I made and a full house of people! The girls had fun playing hide and seek while the adults chatted mostly in Spanish while I desparately tried to keep up with the conversation. We then took Uxoa, Carlos and the kids to the Accra Mall to see what it is all about. We did some shopping and exploring and then went back to their place for wine. They've just moved into a nice complex that has a cute backyard we wish we had at our place. So we attempted to sit outside to have a glass of wine, but soon started getting eaten by mosquitos and had to run back in to avoid the dreaded Malaria.

And tomorrow, there are more friend activities planned. We're headed to the beach to celebrate our New Zealand friend, Bek's birthday, along with her husband, Gregor, and some other families. Hopefully the weather holds out.

So, all in all, we're feeling pretty good about the friends we've managed to make and have just realized we had to be patient. We're looking forward to many more dinners, parties, and fun outings.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Morocco, Incredible Morocco

Alan and I have just returned from an incredible 10 day trip to Morocco. This country has so much that it was impossible to do all we wanted in only 10 days so we decided we'd focus on the two major historical and cultural cities, Marrakech and Fez, and their surroundings and save the rest – the Atlantic ocean, the Sahara, and some other small towns for later (we've already decided we have to make another trip).

We began our trip in Marrakech after a train ride from Casablanca, which we were told was not so great. Marrakech, on the other hand, is like a glamorous oasis for European tourists, outfitted with modern restaurants and clubs, high end shopping, and spas. But it also offers amazing architecture, gardens, and cultural sites. Most of the sites are within the old part of the city, called the Medina. The Medina is basically the old walled section of the city that consists of a main square surrounded by a labyrinth of small alley-sized streets all interconnected but with absolutely no identifying names or landmarks. We were told to be prepared to get lost and to get frustrated… both of which we did more than once.








Some of the annoyances included getting lost and the constant approach from locals offering to guide us or show us the sites. Even if you are walking in the correct direction hagglers will make you turn around and go the wrong way in exchange for a few coins. And because we don’t speak French or Arabic, we couldn’t even tell them to please let us get lost in our own terms. So they would follow us speaking a mile a minute in French or Spanish as they tried to guess what country we were from and offering to show us around. We learned to just keep walking and ignore them except for a one or two times when we just lost it and blew up at them and told them in broken French/English to leave us alone. That was met by comments about being paranoid, to go back to our country, or calling me “Sweetie” and making kissing noises. It was cynically comforting to know that other tourists like us were experiencing the same. One day we found a group of Spanish ladies who were just as lost and frustrated with hagglers that we decided to tag along them in the quest for famous landmarks without paying to get lost. But, we were able to laugh later about these experiences and learned that one cannot stop and look at a map in the Medina because you will be surrounded by locals within seconds.

In Marrakech (as opposed to Fes where streets are even narrower), another annoyance is that motorbikes are allowed on the narrow streets in the Medina so you have to constantly be looking front and back to avoid being run over. In fact, within the first 5 minutes of entering the Medina for the first time, I was hit by a woman in a burka on a motorbike…I had not yet learned to haves eyes on the back of my head!

But, when we were not getting harassed by locals or hit by motorbikes, we were amazed by the tons and tons of crafts – everything from carpets, to pottery, to leather, to jewelry, to silver tea sets, and much much more.




In Fez, we visited the tanneries which is an area of the Medina where they treat and dye the hides from which all the leather shoes, bags, and other goods are made. It was really smelly so we were given some mint leaves to hold near our noses.





We discovered intricate mosaics on doorways, could smell wonderful spices, and just watched the locals go about their business. We were mesmerized by the amazing architecture of palaces, museums, Koranic schools, gardens and just random doorways here and there. The design is immensely intricate with either mosaic tiling or small carvings or inlayed work. You can just stare at if for hours and it never gets boring to see it again and again.







We also made our way to the Mellah in both Marrakech and Fez, which is the old Jewish quarter, and this was really interesting too. We saw the still operating synagogue in Marrakech. Luckily the Rabbi was in that day and showed us around. In Fez, we got a local guide to show us around the quarter for a few Dihram and soon after some discussion he and Alan discovered the other's Jewish heritage and appropriately shook hands under what used to be a Sukkah.








Outside of the Medina in Marrakech we went to these amazing gardens called Le Jardin Majorelle which was owned by Yves Saint Laurent – the fashion designer. It was filled with gorgeous exotic cactus and flowers and decorated with bright blue fountains and planters.





The plants and flowers were another amazing part of Morocco. Everywhere you turn you see fruit trees or olive trees. Even our hotel had an amazing garden full of orange and date trees. And during our train rides between cities we’d see miles and miles of farmland with apples, peaches, grapes, olives, walnuts, and figs. In the Medina were stands just piled high with dried fruit and nuts.



And in the center square you can get fresh squeezed orange juice which we did several times after almost melting from the heat.



Speaking of the heat…Alan officially became a redneck after the first day of touring around and my feet took a serious beating!




During our stay in Marrakech we took a day trip to the Atlas Mountains a few hours away and had a guide take us on a hike up to a Berber village where we got to have mint tea (the official beverage of Morocco) with a Berber woman in her house.






Although it was one of these touristy things to do there, we found it really cool to see how the Berber people live in these small villages in the mountains. The house was very rudimentary but they are hooked up to the electricity grid and get radio but they still cook meals over a hot fire and use mules to get things up and down the mountain. Even though we couldn’t communicate with the woman, we learned that we both knit and she showed me something her daughter was working on! Then we had lunch on top of the highest building in the village and took in some amazing views and enjoyed a chicken tagine with skewers and veggies.



On the way up the mountain we got to see how a women’s cooperative produces Argan Oil (a similar thing to olives) which is used for both cooking and cosmetic purposes. I bought some Argan mask which I tried when we got home…not bad!




When we finished our few days in Marrakech, we took a 7 hour train ride to our next stop - Fez. Fez is the handicraft and cultural center of Morocco it seems. Here too is an even more dense and confusing Medina filled equally (or maybe slightly less) crafts and local hagglers. By now though, we were ready to try our bargaining skills and buy some crafts. We had decided we wanted to buy some carpets, embroidery, leather and ceramics. After getting burned on our embroidery purchase, I think Alan did pretty well with the carpets. At least we like to think so! Bargaining is truly an art that I think takes quite some time to perfect. It wouldn’t take long in Morocco though because you literally have to bargain for everything – even taxi rides!

In Marrakech taxis do not use the meter. At the end of each ride we would ask how much we owed and on every occasion the answer was,”What do you want to pay?” It made it a complete rip-off for ignorant tourists like us – if the answer was too low the taxi driver doesn’t accept and anything above what he expects is pure profit for them. In Marrakech however, by the third same distance ride Alan had cut our first 100 Dirham taxi ride to 20! By the end of our trip, Alan was so good at bargaining and catching scams that he managed to give it right back to a taxi driver. In Fez, a guy picked us up at really ritzy hotel we had stopped at to take in a beer and the view and had the meter already at 12 Dirham. Alan said “no, my friend, put the meter at 0” and the driver said, “Oh, you want to use the meter?” - Clearly he thought we had just arrived. So we asked him to take us near our hotel and by now we knew our way around and he proceeded to drive right pass it and would have kept driving for who knows how long around Fez all the while racking up the cost on the meter unless Alan hadn’t said something. He played ignorant like he didn’t know he had just passed the major parking lot in the city! So Alan asked for us to be let out immediately and he made far less on the ride than he would have if he had just taken us where we had asked to go initially. Alan was quite proud of his accomplishment for the rest of our trip!

All along our trip we had been buying stuff and each day we thought we had improved our bargaining skills. We left buying ceramics for the last day thinking we were unbeatable at negotiating prices. Two hours before leaving Fez we ventured in a store, picked the ceramics we wanted, and let our learned skills take over. We were not going to pay one extra Dirham for bowls and pottery – even if we had to walk out empty handed. Guess what… we won and walked out the store… empty handed!!! Now I’m writing this blog looking at my empty table that should have had a beautiful Fez made glazed bowl if I would just have been lenient enough to pay 5 or 10 more dollars for it! Lesson learned.

Probably one of the best parts of our whole experience in Morocco was our stay at a Riad in Fez. Riads are like small bed and breakfasts that are converted and renovated homes in the Medina. They are usually totally unseen from the street and when you enter, you come across beautiful courtyards, fountains, gardens and mosaics. The homes back in the day were built this way so that from the outside you cannot see their beauty and they become an intimate and very private oasis away from the outside world. They have become part of the tourist destination now in Morocco and are totally worth it! Ours was run by 3 French people and we were attended to non-stop by some amazing Moroccan women – Fatima was our favorite!






There were only 3 rooms of 10 filled so we got to know the other guests quite well. A family from Berkley with the two most amazing daughters – one of whom took a liking to me as she thought I was a movie star, an Australian father/daughter who we wound up taking a day trip with to the Roman Ruins nearby, and an older Australian couple. We ate breakfast together, ate dinner together, got Henna done together, and wound up sharing many stories and laughs together over the 4 days there. It was really interesting as we were all of different generations and cultures and with different experiences but we all got along really well!





While in Fez, we took a day trip to Volubilis, Roman ruins, which was the furthest outpost for the Roman Empire. We went along with some of our friends from the Riad and had a really interesting day, although it was ridiculously hot!





Overall it was an amazing trip and I would recommend it to everyone that has the patience to bargain for everything with everyone 24 hours a day. It is so different from Ghana and still very African. While we were told Moroccans consider themselves a people in between Europe and the Arab world, this is far from the truth. Everone was rooting for Ghana in the World Cup. We do want to go back some day and explore less visited areas.
** We will post all of our pictures on a photo viewing/sharing website as soon as we can and will put the link in this blog so if you want to see tons of Morocco pictures, you can!